Comments on: Matters of Attraction http://dacostad.wordpress.com/2008/04/04/matters-of-attraction/ Live.Love.Listen.Laugh. Sun, 13 Dec 2009 17:01:11 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: char http://dacostad.wordpress.com/2008/04/04/matters-of-attraction/#comment-98 char Sun, 06 Apr 2008 12:25:25 +0000 http://dacostad.wordpress.com/?p=70#comment-98 i am always surprised at many of the men who git on me, simply becuase they are lonely and are looking for "someone". i am considered attractive but doubt this has anything to do with it, i am social and wnjoy tlaking to people, some men are stoked just to have someone pay attention to them. i do not choose them because i am not "anyone" and if they set there standards so low, how can i trust them to want me to treat them with respect. oftne, when i reject these blokes they will get upset and perhaps even rude. like i think i'm too good for them. but it's not like they want to get to know me as a person anyway, they are just lonely-they are looking for anyone. they just can't see that i am giving them a compliment with the refjection- you are worth more than lowering your standards, you are worth having the bar raised for, you are worth more than someone who would go out with a person who just wants anyone. i am always surprised at many of the men who git on me, simply becuase they are lonely and are looking for “someone”. i am considered attractive but doubt this has anything to do with it, i am social and wnjoy tlaking to people, some men are stoked just to have someone pay attention to them.

i do not choose them because i am not “anyone” and if they set there standards so low, how can i trust them to want me to treat them with respect.

oftne, when i reject these blokes they will get upset and perhaps even rude. like i think i’m too good for them. but it’s not like they want to get to know me as a person anyway, they are just lonely-they are looking for anyone.

they just can’t see that i am giving them a compliment with the refjection- you are worth more than lowering your standards, you are worth having the bar raised for, you are worth more than someone who would go out with a person who just wants anyone.

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