5 Types of Men Women avoid
Before I start this list – I must note that I find it astonishing that men can almost ALWAYS find someone regardless of what category they may align with. Women…Yeah not so much. That being said – here is what I was able to come up with.
5 Types of Women that Men Avoid
1 ) Women that actually expect men to approach them. Evolutionary psychology states that it is a cross cultural tendency for the person with the higher status to approach a prospective mate. Ignoring the idea that ‘status’ is synonymous with value, I am comfortable suggesting that for the most part, men usually have initiated contact with the opposite sex over the years. Recently, it appears (from observation and interviews) women have become the ‘seekers’.
Does this mean there has been some type of cultural role reversal? Or have men, being outnumbered, become lazy since they don’t have to work very hard to find a mate? Nevertheless, for the traditional woman this does not bode well.
My advice? Hit the border. You know why.
Church
So I went to church. On a Sunday. Again. After swearing off my home SDA church back in August of last year I have only attended three times since – all by invitation. Ironically, two of these visits were to a church other than my primary denomination.
So I realize kind of church I like – and which ones scare the hell out of me. ( I know – the irony!). I prefer a church that is small. ..a congregation of less than 50. I would like a church that does not last more than 3 hours (including Sabbath school)- and does so consistently unless there is a special occasion. Church should be a place where what I wear matters less than my presence- and I would like to NOT feel that I am attending a town hall meeting like the ones at work. My bed is quite comfortable at home – I don’t want to spend good resting time on the sturdy, unforgiving pews – so all I ask is that I am engaged – not frightened. I prefer not to be shouted at (because saying it loud doesn’t make it right) – but to be confronted with reason.
Here are my top 10 things I dislike about going to church:
Checking in …
Not that you missed me – but I have been away for sometime. While I’d like to say I was learning great things to share with you – most of the things I’ve learned we’ve already discussed in one way or another. My social Psychology course has been the most relevant thus far – as I spend much time (or used to) trying to understand my own behaviour and that of those around me.
Needless to say I think I’ve completely exhausted my learning experiences. Have you ever felt that way? As if you’ve reached that point of life’s learning curve that you begin to plateau – easily cruising along the fringe of existence where age and experience meet? Everything provides an instant sense of familiarity and peace and balance, not to mention a mental mantra of ‘Meh’!
So this is what comfort feels like.
Love? Check.
Home? Check.
Means of income? Check.
Growth? Check..
Balance? Check.
And giving thanks.
