5 Types of Women that Men Avoid

5 Types of Women that Men Avoid

 

1 ) Women that actually expect men to approach them. Evolutionary psychology states that it is a cross cultural tendency for the person with the higher status to approach a prospective mate. Ignoring the idea that ‘status’ is synonymous with value, I am comfortable suggesting that for the most part, men usually have initiated contact with the opposite sex over the years. Recently, it appears (from observation and interviews) women have become the ‘seekers’.

Does this mean there has been some type of cultural role reversal? Or have men, being outnumbered, become lazy since they don’t have to work very hard to find a mate? Nevertheless, for the traditional woman this does not bode well.

My advice? Hit the border. You know why.

2)    Women who are tall and/or heavy set

I want to ignore the cry of women over 5’10 – but I have to admit – you all are right. Men are completely intimidated by you and it makes it more difficult if you’re looking for a strapping 6’0 footer as they have their own issues. I mean when you’re that tall everyone sees you – and who ever is on your arm – so you know how that goes.

My advice? Join a sports team – and then hit the border.

Taboo the subject may be, but many times the first thing that happens when a woman decides she is ready to find ‘the one’, her weight/shape becomes a primary issue. Suddenly she’s on a diet, exercising – and God knows what else – in order to change the way she looks. How often do men do the same? From the looks of it – not so much – but what do I know? I know that women have their preferences as well – and one of those might be having a man that looks like he can protect her – or hold her sturdily. She may not want to be with someone who expects her to do all the heavy lifting. ( MW – I am thinking of that story you told me – oh, girl.) Your mate need not look at you as someone who they think will lift their truck out of a ditch. This is not what you want – but these are the men that pursue you – am I wrong?

My advice ? Girl….. you can exercise and lose all the weight you want – but if you plan on having children you might gain it back. Genes do play a part…so if your man met you looking like Nicole Ritchie and once you land him you turn into Kristie Alley – you’re going to have some explaining to do. Don’t front. It’s not worth it. Dress well, have confidence, stay healthy – and when in doubt…Hit the border.

3) The infamous ‘Tomboy’

I’ve heard them say it. Men say they don’t want a woman who can drink more beer than they do – trash talk and cuss – or trade one night stand stories with the guys. I guess they don’t like the competition.

My advice – know how to be flexible. That giggling cotton-candy smelling chica in the corner looks like she might never have escaped the style plague of the eleventh grade, but next to you she seems like Aphrodite. Yes- that probably means you start to look more like…Zena. Know what I mean? Some guys like that… hit the gym or the WWE circuit- you might find some there.

 4) The modern day woman

She says –

‘I am educated’

‘I do not cook, wash or clean – because I believe in equal rights’ ?

‘I am independent’

‘I do not need a man to fulfill me’

‘I will never be bare foot and pregnant’

‘I am gainfully employed and valued by my male colleagues’

‘Women are intimidated by me’ Blah blah blah.

What she doesn’t say is -

 ‘I am medicated’

You get what you ask for. Ambition has nothing to do with companionship – so get a grip. You did what you wanted to do and you should be glad (without having to say so).

My advice – just shut up already. Stop trying to convince yourself that now when you are ready to look up from your self-help books, and Chanel boots, to face the world – it means every wish should be granted to you. Who do you think you are, Aladdin?

5) The ‘Christian’ Woman

Yes – I am going to put it out there – and any woman who has to wear skirts all the time, won’t  straighten or colour her hair, wear cosmetics or jewellery and insists on being celibate – has got her work cut out for her.

We don’t need to go into specifics – but she could do herself a favour by NOT saying ‘I’m glad I don’t have to deal with men – I’m married to the Lord’  Is she serious? Do you not remember the first story in the bible? The one with the guy and the girl – and why God put them here in the first place? I’m not one to tell people to change their beliefs to suit society – not at all.

Just know this. Everyone is not with the same program and a woman of god need not  create a ‘spiritual hostage’ crisis every time she  finds someone (usually a heathen) she is interested in. I don’t have any of the answers for her – that is between her and God.

Although I would suggest enrolling in a Christian college and attending many different churches for better exposure. I know what you’re thinking ‘Church is not for that purpose’ – but the Bible says something about unequal yoke – so where exactly are you suppose to find this ‘Moses’? Don’t be like the virgins without oil in their lamps.

Stay tuned for 5 Types of men Women avoid…

Have a good one.. .Dee